Wednesday, 17 August 2016

Sluts vs. Girls

I'm sure everyone knows the meaning of a slut. E.g. Wearing exposing clothes make you a slut or having many ex boyfriends makes you a slut. But whats the true meaning?
Slut ; a woman who has many casual sexual partners. Or a woman with low standards of cleanliness.
Let me tell you this guys, a slut, and a girl who has the rights to express herself, are very different.
A slut wears very exposing clothes to grab the attention of boys/men to induce sexual intentions.
A slut changes boyfriends because she plays them like toys, without having any feelings for him from the start.
However, a girl who likes to express herself is different, very different.
Due to society nowadays, the fashion industry is advancing in starting new trends. And trendsetting is not an easy task as the companies would have to also consider people's interests and look into the type of fashion items that would bring in most income. Thus, since society is embracing the 'exposed-skin' type of clothings more and more, companies have no choice but to produce those type of clothes in order to bring them more revenue from the sales.
This then led to 'this type of clothings' becoming a trend all over the world. Hence, for fashionistas or people that respects fashion, they would feel the need to wear those clothings in order to keep up with the fashion world but gets called a slut.

As for switching boyfriends like changing clothes. Sluts, have a choice to do play with boys. Intention flirting, getting together, then break their hearts once they are done.
However, there are girls who have mulitple boyfriends not because they want to, but because it was them that actually got played many times. What if a girl were to like this guy, dated him but he threw her away like a piece of tissue once she was useless. However, one would expect the girl to learn her lesson after the first time. But what if that geeky, quiet girl believes in love at first sight and has a weak heart? She would have no choice but to let her heart shatter over and over again but still gets called a slut.

So, people of today's society. Next time before you judge a girl and assume she's a slut. Like the famous quoting, 'Don't judge a book by its cover.' You never know someone's story until you start knowing them, and when you assume, one may do the most unexpected, dumbest things that would make you regret for judging them without knowing their story.

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